tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2099562158077385772.comments2023-03-23T01:17:38.833-07:00Bi-Coastal BarbieMy-Myhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14618401101214739942noreply@blogger.comBlogger32125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2099562158077385772.post-42213438794369412102011-07-08T12:06:51.045-07:002011-07-08T12:06:51.045-07:00You ladies are RIGHT ON!! You can't be real a...You ladies are RIGHT ON!! You can't be real and fake at the same time. Faking like you're healed only gets in the way of the REAL healing!!My-Myhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14618401101214739942noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2099562158077385772.post-18020201417171841572011-07-07T20:53:53.250-07:002011-07-07T20:53:53.250-07:00This was one of the most fabulous, candid, right o...This was one of the most fabulous, candid, right on ...I could go on. But the point is, it speaks to the reality of emotional healing and the metaphors tell it in a way few would venture to reveal. That's real lady! What we do best!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17532820709792623276noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2099562158077385772.post-46889223729129823612011-07-05T18:10:00.215-07:002011-07-05T18:10:00.215-07:00I totally agree...ripping it off also helps you fo...I totally agree...ripping it off also helps you forgive, forgiveness is apart of the healing the new skin you receive will allow your heart to be renewed and allow that chipped part to not be a sharp edge but one rounded off, so you aren't pricking people awayT.a.c.Dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03764565798496512732noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2099562158077385772.post-22809742772684473052011-04-14T09:43:44.686-07:002011-04-14T09:43:44.686-07:00speakspeakAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14486183307751483344noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2099562158077385772.post-77529703351111178702009-01-15T12:15:00.000-08:002009-01-15T12:15:00.000-08:00Honey F**** the HATERS!! You have to love yourself...Honey F**** the HATERS!! You have to love yourself, Everyone should think that they are the shit, if you don't how can you expect anyone else to<BR/><BR/>Hell I am the SH**!!!!!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2099562158077385772.post-71888655088341481762009-01-15T07:49:00.000-08:002009-01-15T07:49:00.000-08:00lol, yay for us indeed!!!lol, yay for us indeed!!!My-Myhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14618401101214739942noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2099562158077385772.post-12213516150053554902009-01-14T10:41:00.000-08:002009-01-14T10:41:00.000-08:00EXCELLENT Blog... absolutely excellent. And for t...EXCELLENT Blog... absolutely excellent. And for the record, your are the sh!t... and guess what, So am I. Yay for us!Valynciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09078413137201241310noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2099562158077385772.post-5494019405664880942008-12-05T12:19:00.000-08:002008-12-05T12:19:00.000-08:00CLASSIC! my mom is over it, she actually is the on...CLASSIC! my mom is over it, she actually is the one that tells me not to even pay my grandmother and them any mind...its my dad that is worried...LOL...<BR/><BR/>i refuse to settle so i guess until one of the 25% comes across my path i'll be chilling...making sure i got my stuff together ;-)T.a.c.Dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03764565798496512732noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2099562158077385772.post-13451619438359983102008-12-05T12:14:00.000-08:002008-12-05T12:14:00.000-08:00GIRL you sure know how to write...like you said th...GIRL you sure know how to write...like you said they are living in a fairytale land...its amazing...my father told me at a very young age that as a woman you shouldn't be a fixture...because like you said it will only backfire on you...man oh manT.a.c.Dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03764565798496512732noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2099562158077385772.post-41777177899588740182008-12-03T08:49:00.000-08:002008-12-03T08:49:00.000-08:00LOL, yes she does...LOL, yes she does...My-Myhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14618401101214739942noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2099562158077385772.post-82175742946839695942008-12-02T16:39:00.000-08:002008-12-02T16:39:00.000-08:00I'm glad to see someone was disapointed in Mega B ...I'm glad to see someone was disapointed in Mega B like I was :-)<BR/><BR/>Riri lives on!!LudaKhrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02745836499115012100noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2099562158077385772.post-6023118880680309702008-12-01T19:59:00.000-08:002008-12-01T19:59:00.000-08:00You know what My, I was about to cry reading this ...You know what My, I was about to cry reading this because I know first hand how much of a struggle it can be!! I also know how you can lose yourself in a relationship and the only way to get yourself back is to look at me with no one else!! In the end your me time pays off as you said it wakes you up not only to the bullshit that you can't believe you endured but it wakes you up into really knowing what you want! I'm so proud of you girl :)Lynnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04661324290174132235noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2099562158077385772.post-30011939118848065692008-12-01T15:40:00.000-08:002008-12-01T15:40:00.000-08:00Glad you enjoyed it!Glad you enjoyed it!My-Myhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14618401101214739942noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2099562158077385772.post-69481469460329664112008-12-01T09:59:00.000-08:002008-12-01T09:59:00.000-08:00This is very insightful and truthful...i too have ...This is very insightful and truthful...i too have been going through an emotional healing process and though its a LOT of work, the thing is you HAVE to do it...and the reality is that the BEST thing to do is to get YOURSELF together, you can never be anything to anyone else until you are everything for yourself...you have to LOVE yourself and who you are...<BR/><BR/>Thanks for sharing it was a most welcome and warm reminder of my own journey and how in the end it will all be alright!T.a.c.Dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03764565798496512732noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2099562158077385772.post-11481434651530062912008-05-15T06:01:00.000-07:002008-05-15T06:01:00.000-07:00Gurl... you ain't right...but you are CORRECT!Why?...Gurl... you ain't right...but you are CORRECT!<BR/><BR/>Why? That's all I can say when witnessing such 'tragedies'... Like taking my son to take pictures at the mall. Little "Tyrone" I'll call him, all dressed up in the latest Nike gear, with a nappy head and crying that he's hungry. Nose running like the little boy from Martin and his mama only 15 years older than him... in matching Nike gear! <BR/><BR/>As Tyrone continues to cry and snot all over his Nike uniform... mama tells him to Shut the EFF UP and hits him a few times in his nappy head.<BR/><BR/>Ok, was that supposed to comfort him? Is that what we do in the skreets? GHETTO TRAGEDY!Journey_DaButtaflyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08224709384063976518noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2099562158077385772.post-46329972548581748752008-05-12T13:37:00.000-07:002008-05-12T13:37:00.000-07:00Can we get a new posting please.Can we get a new posting please.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03177728383726661279noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2099562158077385772.post-28258136947809896162008-05-12T07:16:00.000-07:002008-05-12T07:16:00.000-07:00Cheaters are cowards... period.Either they are too...Cheaters are cowards... period.<BR/>Either they are too afraid to ask or demand for what they need, or are too afraid to be alone and continue to search for what they need.<BR/><BR/>All in all... everything you seek, you should already have... just need somebody to enhance!<BR/><BR/>Cheating is sharing anything intimate (verbal, physical, emotional, etc.) outside of your mate.<BR/><BR/>Cheating = cheating your mate out of the knowledge that you are in some way disappointed, unsatisfied or unhappy with the relationship and not allowing them to step up to the plate and have the CHOICE to make a difference or move on with their lives.<BR/><BR/>On another note... that show is going to get somebody killed! LOL And it doesn't matter WHAT CHANNEL it's on! <BR/><BR/>Good blog MyMy!Journey_DaButtaflyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08224709384063976518noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2099562158077385772.post-52193876774447140502008-05-01T17:28:00.000-07:002008-05-01T17:28:00.000-07:00Yes good question why does cheaters come on G-4. H...Yes good question why does cheaters come on G-4. However I must say I LOVE that show!LudaKhrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02745836499115012100noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2099562158077385772.post-54774991677307506962008-05-01T13:05:00.000-07:002008-05-01T13:05:00.000-07:00girl i'm lost wit cheaters too... if you refer bac...girl i'm lost wit cheaters too... if you refer back to my blog on the guy who i'm talking to that has a baby momma who he calls his wife and is technically with. He in his mind don't think he cheating but said that she know what he do and she accepts him the way he is. But i'm like whats the point in being with her if you technically don't want to be with her? I just pray he ain't screwing all these woman and going back to screw his baby momma. I hope there's a rubber involved somewhere in there. So that is why i'm just "talking" to him but now i'm officially over that thanks to Nichova!Maryk6https://www.blogger.com/profile/17667649982848894292noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2099562158077385772.post-51500046078882967832008-04-30T09:12:00.000-07:002008-04-30T09:12:00.000-07:00I've DEFINITELY seen a micropenis. It was HORRIFI...I've DEFINITELY seen a micropenis. It was HORRIFIC. I was tiny tiny. Like a new born baby penis. He was a grown man. <BR/>Shame.NicHovahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07666014351445163627noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2099562158077385772.post-47169395975119445972008-04-29T12:50:00.000-07:002008-04-29T12:50:00.000-07:00Agreed. I wouldn't say I'm an unbelievable b*tch, ...Agreed. I wouldn't say I'm an unbelievable b*tch, b/c I am believable and I am a b*tch by naure. I just don't like to play games. I would want a guy to do the same and say, I'm just not into you or I'm already seeing someone or I just got out of a relationship and not ready yet or the creme de la creme, I just see you as a friend. So yeah, I would let him down gently not be a total stank b*tch about it, like my sh*t don't stink or I'm just too good for him. Marriage- I'm not waiting around for it to come but if it happens then nature should take its course and I will accept my fate. If thats what God has planned for me. Right now I'm learning more and more about myself. Healing from a lot and experiencing life without the need of a man, to feel I can get by. Indeed we all grow; we expand, we develop, we form, we become.Maryk6https://www.blogger.com/profile/17667649982848894292noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2099562158077385772.post-39380874805774668842008-04-29T12:24:00.000-07:002008-04-29T12:24:00.000-07:00This comment has been removed by the author.Maryk6https://www.blogger.com/profile/17667649982848894292noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2099562158077385772.post-13616897145329403642008-04-29T09:47:00.000-07:002008-04-29T09:47:00.000-07:00Hmmmm... very insightful young lady!But with growt...Hmmmm... very insightful young lady!<BR/><BR/>But with growth, as if you've stated come a LOT OF CHANGE!<BR/><BR/>I am not an unbelievable ITCH.. but I am now comfortable enough with myself to tell a man "sorry sweetie, don't wanna waste either of our time" instead of giving him a fake number or any other such thing. When he asks why... I tell the truth "Not me! Not now!" or "Your timing is just waaaay off!" and sometimes that is the truth. Therefore, if I should see him after I've healed... I didn't say no.... just not now!<BR/><BR/>Marriage is not a business deal (although young americans have made it that way). Marriage is not about my assets +your assets = more collateral for MORE STUFF!<BR/><BR/>And those that are grown up enough, will get it and know what marriage is really about. Love, respect, growth, commitment, spiritual connection and expression, worship... I can go on... it's a beautiful thing! <BR/><BR/>But for now... I'm with you My... I'm no in the mood!Journey_DaButtaflyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08224709384063976518noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2099562158077385772.post-38901103003920310022008-04-29T08:50:00.000-07:002008-04-29T08:50:00.000-07:00Gurl... that song has "MY BABY DADDY" written all ...Gurl... that song has "MY BABY DADDY" written all over it.<BR/><BR/>And yes.. he was Mr. Right... and gave me the perfect little prince, but I'm gone let GOD work on him and when HE says that he is ready (yall sistahs who READ the WORD know what I'm talking about) then HE will give him back to me!<BR/><BR/>Until then... hmmm I'm gone try to sip on some lemonade and leave that CROWN ROYAL alone! LMAOJourney_DaButtaflyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08224709384063976518noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2099562158077385772.post-2026393023055080362008-04-29T08:15:00.000-07:002008-04-29T08:15:00.000-07:00My new friend... I luv your spirit... so much like...My new friend... I luv your spirit... so much like the ME that I'm trying to find my way back to.<BR/><BR/>And I vow to take this seed you've replanted in my own spirit and nourish it until I have bloomed into the beautiful flower that God created... moving the weeds from my life!<BR/><BR/>Hugz MyMy! I'm glad that we met. (See the Metro IS good for something!)<BR/>~JourneyJourney_DaButtaflyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08224709384063976518noreply@blogger.com